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2025 Alignment Challenge - Begins Feb 2nd
Upgrade Your Standards and Boundaries

Weāre in charge of the direction of our lives whether we want to believe it or not. Our current relationships, standards, boundaries, businesses and earning capacities are a result of all the decisions and actions weāve taken over the course of our existence.
Youāve adopted things from family, friends, society, therapists, coaches and people you follow on the internet. Youāve rebelled against things that scare you or donāt align with you. You have leaned into what makes you curious and moved away from what repulses you.
š«µš¼ You have done this.
š¬ You are the director.
āļø You are the star of your own show.
š¤ Alignment requires one thing none of us really like and itās called⦠self responsibility.
If you are liable for your life, that means thereās no one else to blame, anymore.
Itās a tough gig and a role not many want to take on because⦠with great power comes great responsibility and when you are self responsibleā¦
š You are the most powerful
š¤ You make the most money
š©āā¤ļøāšāšØ You have the most meaningful relationships
š You experience the most joy
š You are your own best friend
š You have faith in life and love
And last but not least⦠youāre confident because youāve said no to all that doesnāt align with who you know yourself to be on the inside and ultimately who you are becoming.
Iāve had a lot of stuff happen to me in my life. Iāve been broke as shit so many times, Iāve been molested, abused, gaslit, lied to, manipulated, abandoned and it all led me here and here is somewhere I am proud of and at peace with (for the most part).
There were many times of my life where I couldnāt choose the direction because I was too young to do so.
I am no longer at that time of my life and neither are you. Our ego, childhood patterns and conditioning would like to tell us otherwise.
You are an adult, a creative human, a conscious business owner, an empath and a devoted being who cares about bringing more love to a bereft humanity. This is why you started your business, because you wanted more love, you love love, you love giving love and receiving love. The business you chose is actually rooted in love above all else.
It all sounds a bit cheesy but the only way into financial and emotional alignment is through: love.
Love isā¦
š£ Tough conversations
š Letting people go
š š»āāļø Saying no with kindness and conviction
1 Spending a lot of time alone
š¤ Finding your version of faith
š· Putting your own oxygen mask on first
š Letting people love and support you
š And ultimately⦠feeling proud because you took the wheel in the drivers seat of your one wild and precious life.
This self responsible life is rooted in love and connection over achievement and recognition.
Thatās what actually moves us into embodied alignment.


Youāre responsible for all of it, the wins and losses. Remember, responsible doesnāt equate to self blame and loathing. It means youāve been courageous enough to lean into messy action, even when youāve been scared shitless and youāll continue to fine tune your path into something youāre proud of; scars and all.
You didnāt come this far to only come this far.
Thereās upgrades waiting for you on the other side of more courage and action. Your willingness to be seen and visible as who you really are is your superpower .
Itās time to take a bet on yourself.
I believe in you.
Introducing the 2025 Alignment Challenge - 5-Days of Upgrading Your Standards & Boundaries so you can generate more income being who you actually are.
The challenge begins Sunday, 2nd February and weāll meet @ 11am NZT everyday for 5 days.
Our first call is:
NZ: Sunday, Feb 2nd @ 11am NZT
Australia: Sunday, Feb 2nd @ 9am AEDT
USA: Saturday, Feb 1st @ 2pm PST
Itās a pay what you can model (Iāve set the minimum at $20 USD) and 100% of profits will be going to the fire victims in LA.
Letās make some money for the folks whoāve lost homes, pets, sentimental items and loved ones.
You can register ā¬ļø
Hereās toā¦

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