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We have to ask ourselves, what’s the payoff for arguing forcefully for our limitations?
Gruyères, Switzerland
“If I cling to the notion that somethings not possible, arguing in favour of limitation, and if I argue for my limitations I get to keep them.
We have to ask ourselves, what’s the payoff for arguing forcefully for our limitations?
Allowing our lives to go well and to feel good is not a safety hazard.”
-Gay Hendricks
I meet so many people, from all walks of life, all the damn time, as do you.
I ask people about their dreams, why they don’t do the thing and I am constantly handing out unsolicited permission slips that say:
“You can do that, should you choose”.
As Gay Hendricks said above - wtf is the point in arguing in favour of your limitations, of why you can’t do something?
🥵 Of why you’re broke, or whose fault it is, or why you’re hard done by, burdened, tired, overworked etc.
I am not in favour of justifying a life I wouldn’t want or that I seek to shift.
Please allow yourself the same grace.
Question:
Where are you clinging to beliefs you don’t really believe because it feels too hard to change?
Remember what I always say, you don’t have an information problem (you know how you feel) and you don’t have a motivation problem.
You could just do with a little more courage/bravery and you have a decision to make.
I believe in you, wholeheartedly 💖
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