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What To Do When You're Feeling Broke 🪙
R&R Retreat - Nov 8th - 10th 2024
I’d like to talk about the notion of giving ourselves what we need even when we feel poor, overwhelmed and undeserving.
I’ve worked with numerous clients over the past 6+ years and a common theme is when they feel shame or failure and are faced with fear and indecision, they contract.
When we contract we scrimp, save, penny pinch, go without, restrict and become highly detail oriented sweating the small stuff.
A question I ask my clients AND myself (remember, new level same devil) is:
“What would I do differently if I had ‘x’ in my bank account right now?”
🌳 Would I let myself go on a long device free walk
🍫 Would I buy the fancy brand of thing I like vs the cheap one
🧘♀️ Would I take more time for myself
💆♀️ Would I book the massage
🫧 Would I love myself with rituals and routines that I know benefit my physical, mental and spiritual health?
The answer is ‘of course’.
99% of the people I work with feel they have an income problem and that income problem is directly correlated with self worth.
When we increase our self worth, we increase our earning capacity, when we increase our earning capacity, we increase our options and it ultimately gives us what we’re all looking for:
More freedom of time.
More freedom to choose.
Increasing our income requires us to lean into the edgy places, spaces, humans and habits that feel easier left alone.
Being who we know we’re meant to be requires courage and most importantly: messy action.
Will you give yourself permission to upgrade, you know what you do and don’t like, you can trust it.
Wanna come on retreat with us? This Nov 8th - 10th I’m hosting the R&R Retreat @ Sandhána on Waiheke Island. Expect deep connection, rest & a renewed sense of motivation for life.
We have 6 spots left.
Here’s the deets ⬇️
R&R Retreat @ Sandhána, Waiheke Island
Yes, we will be taking ocean dips at this exact location

The food will be nutrient dense, nourishing, organic and SO tasty.
We will forest walk & absorb all the beautiful nature 🌳
Previous R&R Retreats

R&R Retreat 2019

Adult slumber party vibes 🦋
R&R Client Retreat 2020
When
Friday, November 8th @ 4pm - Sunday, November 10th @ 12pm - 2 nights, 3 days.
What
This retreat is a bespoke, intimate and intentionally curated experience for women in business that are craving deep rest, nurturing and care. All activities are designed to foster a feeling of peace and tranquility with the intention of deep healing and recalibration. Expect to reorient toward your most aligned self.
Why
This retreat is happening in our New Zealand season of spring. Spring is the promise of new beginnings, it is a chance to clear out what you’re not taking with you into this next season of life. Think of this retreat like a letting go of all that is no longer for you. A safe place to nurture your inner child so she can spread her wings, far and wide.
Where
Sandhána: The intention behind Sandhána is to come together and unite, heal, cultivate friendship, discover inner peace, be supported and receive.
How to get there
40 Moa Avenue, Blackpool, Waiheke Island, New Zealand 1081
From Auckland Ferry Terminal there are two passenger ferry services that arrive at Matiatia wharf, Waiheke Island.
From Half Moon Bay there is a car ferry service that arrives at Kennedy Point, Waiheke Island.
We recommend the passenger ferry as a more cost effective option and will help you organise this. We will also pick you up and drop you off.
Who it’s for
Women in business that yearn to connect with themselves and like souled humans. It doesn’t matter where you are on your business journey or how much money you make. Women that run businesses have an unspoken camaraderie and the presence when together is powerful.
Facilitators
Brooke Nolly - me, 👋
Donna O’Connor - Sandhána Owner & Certified Breathwork Facilitator
Natasha Stewart - Sound Bath Activator
Price
Shared Room: Regular - from September 28th $1,500 + GST
Single Room: Regular - from September 28th $2,050 + GST
All balances to be settled up by Friday, November 1st 2024.
Room preferences are on a first come, first served basis ❣️
This retreat is a tax deductible business expense 💵
Sample Itinerary
Friday
4pm - Welcome ceremony, intention setting, snackies & connection
6pm - Dinner
7:30pm - Sound bath & deep rest
9pm - Free time (spa, sauna, fire pit, oracle cards, tea and hangs etc)
Saturday
8:30am - Morning movement (meditation & light yoga)
9:45am - Breakfast
11am - Self Exploration Workshop
12:30pm - Lunch
Afternoon - Free time to connect, explore, nap, sauna, spa, contrast therapy (ice bath), bush/beach walk
4pm - Breathwork journey & cacao
6:00pm - Dinner
7:30pm - Yin & Nidra
8:45pm - Fire pit under the stars w cacao and intention setting
Sunday
8:30am - Morning movement (meditation & light yoga)
9:30am - Breakfast
10:30am - Contrast therapy (optional) ice bath and sauna
11:30am - Closing circle
12pm - Finish

What to expect
The sample itinerary is a guideline of what to expect during our time together, this is subject to change. The retreat is R&R meaning rest and recalibration. You can expect to shift down a few gears during your time here and should you decide you’d like to stay an additional night, we have this as an option too.
This retreat is an act of self love, genuine care and a chance to reconnect to your life force and vitality that may have dwindled out. You will recalibrate your nervous system during our weekend together.
🦋 As women, we need each other.
💖 As women, we need to be taken care of.
💌 As women, we need to turn on our receiver.
💰 As women, we need to spend money on ourselves, for ourselves.
😇 Self care for your soul awaits.
Your nervous system has been begging you for this.
Feeling the call? Reach out, I’d love to hear from you.
Sending you…

Brooke’s website: https://brookenolly.com/
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P.P.S.
Are you a business owner? Want to book a discovery call with me? ⬇️