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Do You Allow Yourself To Indulge?
Nov 8-10 R&R Retreat.
Letās talk about the word āindulgentā.
Itās been a theme this week in my groups and 1:1 calls.
My brain has broken numerous times when it comes to this concept.
When I am being āindulgent, extra, seemingly frivolous or selfishā it pays me back ten fold; returns I could never fathom.
Indulgence = Alignment.
Those returns have been financial, emotional, spiritual, creative and everything in between.
Iāve had the biggest breakthroughs and financial months of my life when Iām tapped into indulgence.
In late 2023 I went on a womenās retreat, the retreat was $750 and I walked away from that weekend having generated $19,250.
I was not expecting that at all. I went on that retreat to rest, heal, feel and recalibrate. I got so freaking sick, slept a lot and somehow managed to receive $19,250.
That word that speaks volumes.
Receive.
š§āāļø How open is your receiver?
š How often do you let yourself rest?
š How often do you give yourself time?
šµ How often do you spend money on yourself?
Purely from a place of love, kindness and care?
I witness women, consistently prioritise bills, obligations and expectations over genuine care for themselves and the openness to receive.
Weāre working with a self worth issue here.
The more you indulge, love yourself and treat yourself as a precious being worthy of being spoiled the seemingly never ending nag of bills, debts, obligations and money leaks⦠will disappear.
You are your greatest investment.
Stop damming your own sense of self because of outdated childhood patterns of unworthiness and lack.
Letās re-write new beliefs centred around indulgence, self love & authentic connection with soul aligned humans.
This Nov 8th - 10th Iām hosting the R&R Retreat @ Sandhana on Waiheke Island. Expect deep connection, rest & a renewed sense of motivation for life.
Spots are limited to 8 people (weāre all about intimacy and low volume around here)
Further details ā¬ļø
R&R Retreat @ SandhƔna, Waiheke Island
Yes, we will be taking ocean dips at this exact location

The food will be nutrient dense, nourishing, organic and SO tasty.
We will forest walk & absorb all the beautiful nature š³
Previous R&R Retreats

R&R Retreat 2019

Adult slumber party vibes š¦
R&R Client Retreat 2020
When
Friday, November 8th @ 4pm - Sunday, November 10th @ 12pm - 2 nights, 3 days.
What
This retreat is a bespoke, intimate and intentionally curated experience for women in business that are craving deep rest, nurturing and care. All activities are designed to foster a feeling of peace and tranquility with the intention of deep healing and recalibration. Expect to reorient toward your most aligned self.
Why
This retreat is happening in our New Zealand season of spring. Spring is the promise of new beginnings, it is a chance to clear out what youāre not taking with you into this next season of life. Think of this retreat like a letting go of all that is no longer for you. A safe place to nurture your inner child so she can spread her wings, far and wide.
Where
SandhƔna: The intention behind SandhƔna is to come together and unite, heal, cultivate friendship, discover inner peace, be supported and receive.

How to get there
40 Moa Avenue, Blackpool, Waiheke Island, New Zealand 1081
From Auckland Ferry Terminal there are two passenger ferry services that arrive at Matiatia wharf, Waiheke Island.
From Half Moon Bay there is a car ferry service that arrives at Kennedy Point, Waiheke Island.
We recommend the passenger ferry as a more cost effective option and will help you organise this. We will also pick you up and drop you off.
Who itās for
Women in business that yearn to connect with themselves and like souled humans. It doesnāt matter where you are on your business journey or how much money you make. Women that run businesses have an unspoken camaraderie and the presence when together is powerful.
Facilitators
Brooke Nolly - me, š
Donna OāConnor - SandhĆ”na Owner & Certified Breathwork Facilitator
Natasha Stuart - Gridworker & Sound Bath Facilitator
Price
Shared Room: Regular - from September 28th $1,500 + GST
Single Room: Regular - from September 28th $2,050 + GST
All balances to be settled up by Friday, November 1st 2024.
Room preferences are on a first come, first served basis ā£ļø
This retreat is a tax deductible business expense šµ
Sample Itinerary
Friday
4pm - Welcome ceremony, intention setting, snackies & connection
6pm - Dinner
7:30pm - Sound bath & deep rest
9pm - Free time (spa, sauna, fire pit, oracle cards, tea and hangs etc)
Saturday
8:30am - Morning movement (meditation & light yoga)
9:45am - Breakfast
11am - Self Exploration Workshop
12:30pm - Lunch
Afternoon - Free time to connect, explore, nap, sauna, spa, contrast therapy (ice bath), bush/beach walk
4pm - Breathwork journey & cacao
6:00pm - Dinner
7:30pm - Yin & Nidra
8:45pm - Fire pit under the stars w cacao and intention setting
Sunday
8:30am - Morning movement (meditation & light yoga)
9:30am - Breakfast
10:30am - Contrast therapy (optional) ice bath and sauna
11:30am - Closing circle
12pm - Finish

What to expect
The sample itinerary is a guideline of what to expect during our time together, this is subject to change. The retreat is R&R meaning rest and recalibration. You can expect to shift down a few gears during your time here and should you decide youād like to stay an additional night, we have this as an option too.
This retreat is an act of self love, genuine care and a chance to reconnect to your life force and vitality that may have dwindled out. You will recalibrate your nervous system during our weekend together.
š¦ As women, we need each other.
š As women, we need to be taken care of.
š As women, we need to turn on our receiver.
š° As women, we need to spend money on ourselves, for ourselves.
š Self care for your soul awaits.
Your nervous system has been begging you for this.
If youāre feeling the call, please book a call with me or hit reply to this email.
Any questions? Reach out, Iād love to hear from you.
Sending youā¦

Brookeās website: https://brookenolly.com/
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