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Thursday nights EXHALE workshop was exactly what I envisioned it to be. It was even described as āadult slumber party vibesā.

The intention was connection. It wasnāt about getting content for marketing purposes, it was about bringing like āsouledā women in business together and thatās exactly what occurred.

It was one of the stormiest nights in history and after two cancelations we ended up with 9 female business owners šÆāāļø
The common themes throughout the evening were ironic.
Or were they?
āI just need to take actionā
āI know I need to take action but I just donātā
āI donāt take any actionā
āI need more spaceā
āI give myself to everyone elseā
Inaction. Overwhelm. Waiting for the right time. Indecision. Perfectionism. Fear. Comparison.
My intention with all my work is to turn the former intoā¦
Messy action. Competence. Confidence. Clarity. Connection. Direction. Accomplishment. Momentum. Moneyyyyyyy.
The people that come into my world donāt have a competence problem.
Theyāve spent their entire lives being incredibly competent, mostly for everyone but themselves.
Typically, they donāt feel supported enough, regulated enough or trust themselves enough to have and do what they actually want.
It sounds simple in theory.
It is an incredibly emotional process in practice.
What would it look like to say yes to being messy?
What would it look like to commit to being seen and showing up?
What would it look like to actually take action instead of talk about it?
Commitment really does equal freedom.
Commitment comes first, messy action comes second and freedom is the result.
I hope you know you are competent, worthy, loved and you can have what you want.
The keys?
Support.
Connection.
Without these two integral ingredients, nothing moves.
Especially for women.
Journal prompts for you
How can I get the support I require to become who I know myself to be?
Who has what I want? What do they do differently to me?
Thatās all for this Monday afternoon.
Sending youā¦

Brookeās website: https://brookenolly.com/
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