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How I Loved Myself After A Lifetime Of People Pleasing
Hey
I had such great feedback from Episode 8 of The Messy Action Podcast - Dealing with Toxic People, Leaving Relationships & The Drama Triangle.
I decided to create a video for you on how I began to actually love myself after unhealthy relationships, gaslighting, narcissism and everything in between.
I’ve had my reality denied countless times to the point I thought I was crazy. I’ve been a participant in unhealthy dynamics before I knew better and have devoted much of the last 6 years trying to understand why, how and what I must do to heal and love myself into self actualisation and meaningful connection.
In this video I touch on:
What destroyed my confidence.
Why I have found it so difficult to trust people.
How I began to love myself.
How I reclaimed a sense of self and privacy after spending a lifetime over sharing.
Codependence.
Narcissism.
People pleasing.
and much more
Please let me know what you think!

Here’s to…
